SEX POSITION FOR THE FIRST TIMER AND SEXUALLY EXPERIENCE

Sex Positions For First Timers and the Sexually Inexperienced
If you haven't actually been to bed with someone yet, you may want to read our general advice for men and women before you have sex for the first time.
On this page we give you some ideas about the sex positions you might like to try during your early sexual explorations.
Sex positions advice - mostly for men
Why would it matter how you get it together? Well, young men don't generally last very long. They're too horny and over-aroused. Sure, provided your partner's willing, you can always have a second go, but premature ejaculation - or even just quick ejaculation - is often just as quick second time around. If you want to give your partner pleasure, then you might want to try the positions where you last the longest. But there are other factors too.
First, some sex positions are harder to get into than others. If you're not that confident anyway, trying to maneuver yourself into a twisted figure of 8 while keeping your penis from popping out of your girl's vagina may not be the easiest thing in the world.
Second, during sex you'll pop faster in some positions than others. Of course, if you have an understanding girlfriend, this may not matter, but if you want to be a good lover, and develop your skills, you can - for most of the time, anyway - stick to the less arousing sex positions. That way, you'll last a bit longer. For example, rear entry is an arousing and exciting position, notorious for making men come fast. You look down on your partner's rear end as your penis enters and leaves her body.....which is very exciting, so unless you've developed some self-control, sex probably won't last long in that position!
Third, your partner may not be very experienced herself, and she might want you to take the lead as she learns more about sex. If you choose the easier positions, you'll take a bit of pressure off yourself.
Fourth, you might actually prefer sex in the simpler, easier positions. Being able to fuck in the harder-to-get-into, acrobatic ones is often not the mark of a good lover but of someone who's not bothered to find out how to get pleasure from simpler ways of making love, and thinks that trying something complicated will make sex better. That's not true - good sex is based on intimacy, love and caring for your partner, not technical ability.
Still, enough of that. Which are the good positions?
Man on top sex positions
The oldest and still the best position for sex! Your girl lies on her back, with her legs apart, and you lie on top, supporting yourself on your knees and elbows (she may actually like to feel your weight resting on her, but don't assume that without asking her. She won't thank you for squashing her!). You're most likely to have your legs between hers; she can rest her feet on your calves or bring her legs higher up you back if she wants - though that's usually easiest after you've completed your initial docking maneuver.
If you're not experienced at getting your cock into a woman's pussy, admit it and ask her to guide you in with her hand. Don't just peck ineffectually around the entrance to her vagina with your knob! It may be a bit easier if she raises her hips by resting her butt on a pillow, but generally speaking, getting into her pussy isn't hard in this position. Make sure you have enough lube on the condom, or if you're not using one, on your penis. Saliva is always a good stand-by.