FOREPLAY TIPS

Getting a Leg UpSo many times, people rush to give attention to the obvious erogenous zones without first heightening passion in other ways. The next time you’re with your partner, we suggest you give some special attention to their legs. Work from the bottom to the top, lingering at each location. Kiss the backs of their ankles. Tickle their calves. Blow on the backs of their knees. Then stroke and massage their inner and outer thighs using a mix of light and heavy strokes. This last part of your "journey" will not only create exquisite sexual tension between you, it will also physically prep your partner for an amazing orgasm by bringing extra blood flow to their genitals.
A Nimble NibbleEver wonder how to use your teeth during love play without harming the object of your desire? (After all, the human bite can do some damage!) The first rule of thumb is start slowly and be gentle. Communicate with your partner as you go to establish what feels right. You might begin by simply grazing parts of your lover’s body as you kiss them, using the edges of your teeth almost like fingernails, lightly tickling shoulders, arms, hands. Or suck each one of your lover’s fingers, softly applying the pressure of your teeth as you remove them from your mouth. If they enjoyed this technique, try lightly biting the back of their neck or other body parts during a session of passionate necking. Their reaction will likely tell you right away whether it’s something that they enjoy and if it’s safe to apply more pressure. But remember, in the heat of the moment it’s easy to get worked up. When you’re using your teeth there’s a fine line between inflaming your lover’s passion and inflicting pain. Be careful!
A Smooth TouchIf you want to add more sensuality to your love play -- and to your daily life -- have your partner rub you down with your favorite lotion after your morning shower or at the end of the day before going to bed. In the five or ten minutes it will take to cover you from head to foot, you’ll both benefit from the touch of one another’s skin, the feel and smell of the lotion, and the whole experience of being close. Then next time, you can do the honors. This allows your lover to feel the warmth of your touch and have you explore every inch of their body (not just tried and true erogenous zones). In the short time it takes to complete this sensual ritual, you’ll not only take care of your bodies and ease daily tension, but most importantly, you’ll enjoy reconnecting as a couple.
Game NightIf your house is like most, then you’ve got games stacked in a closet somewhere that rarely get used. It might be an old board game, a word game, or a trivia game. Whatever you have around, take it out some night when your lover is with you and challenge them to a game. They might not be very excited until you tell about the sexy stakes. Maybe you play a game where spelling out naughty words is encouraged and the winner gets to have the loser as their love slave for a night. A match might require you to shed a piece of clothing for each missed answer. The rules you choose can be your own. What's important is that you make the night playful and passionate using what you've already got around. Anyone up for naked Twister?
Let the Games BeginIt's long been known -- at least among so-called sports widows and the occasional sports widower -- that your significant other's sports season of choice can put a damper on your sex life. "Baby, just let me watch the game." Sound familiar? If so, the next time your lover's team comes on TV, make him a deal. You'll watch the game together, each picking a team and "betting" for sexual favors. For basketball fans, the next two points your team scores might get you a kiss on the neck. A three-point shot could earn your lover a sensual massage during the commercial break. For you football fans, your team's touchdown might be good for oral favors. Whatever rules you make up together, by the game's end, I doubt you'll end up watching television!
Carnal Card PlayYou don't necessarily need fancy games to spice things up! Take a regular deck of cards and simply assign naughty deeds to be done to each number. For example: A number seven card, no matter the suit, stands for an ear nibble; a nine may mean slow dancing ... naked; and face cards are wild. The point is, you and your lover make it the perfect sexy game for the both of you. Just shuffle the deck and pick a card for a night of sensual fun!
Dream On!Don't forget to exercise the most important erotic muscle your have: your mind. Letting yourself fantasize throughout the day about sexy scenes and sensual acts builds your anticipation and creativity. This is a surefire way to make sex that much more satisfying when you finally get to indulge, whether you have a lovemaking session with a partner or a solo session with the star of your fantasies!
Spice It UpDon't believe in the power of aphrodisiacs? Does the thought of oysters upping libido or chocolate being a substitute for sex make you want to laugh? Then perhaps you should try the more down-to-earth effects of everyday spices! Garlic is known for its circulation-boosting properties, so try adding some to your next meal to increase blood flow to special places. Not in the mood for garlic? Try ginger. It's a great taste enhancer (a very important one of your five senses) and causes a warm, tingly sensation when ingested, giving you a head start on other warm, tingly feelings!
31 FlavorsThere are so many delectable flavors of lubricant and edible body products now available, why settle for just one? Some night when you want to give your lover a special treat, dab different flavors of lubricant strategically over your different erogenous zones and have your sweetie taste your skin to discover them one by one. It will be a delicious adventure for both of you!