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Hi Kazeem,
Are you having a hard time getting past a
recent break-up?
Maybe you were dating for a while and you
thought things were pretty amazing, but he wasn't
so sure.
Or maybe YOU were the one who decided it was
better to end things. But now you find yourself
wondering if that was really the right move,
because you're having trouble moving on.
Are you're still trying to figure out how to
get him back, or show him that you're really "the
one" for him?
You text him, or call him, and maybe agreed to
"still be friends" and hang out once in a while.
But nothing seems to make you feel better. In
fact, the more you talk to him or see him, the
WORSE you feel.
Still, you can't imagine not talking to him at
all because you still have some very intense
feelings that just aren't going away anytime soon.
In any case, you're feeling pretty "stuck"
right now, and you don't know what to do about it.
If that's true, then stick around and keep
reading, because in this email I'm going to give
you 3 powerful remedies for getting past a break-
up and getting your love life BACK ON TRACK.
These remedies will fast-track you through
feeling better and getting past all the confusion
of your break-up.
Take a few minutes to read and really THINK
about each step, and then commit to follow through
on each one.
You'll be amazed at how much better you'll
feel.
Here they are:
STEP #1: RECOGNIZE WHAT WASN'T WORKING FOR YOU
So let me ask you.
Are you spending a lot of time thinking about
all the ways you screwed up in your relationship
with your boyfriend, but all the ways he was
great?
Do you keep rehashing an argument, wondering if
things would have been better if you said or did
something different from the beginning with him,
feeling guilty or bad that things moved "too fast"
between you (and it scared him away)?
Do you daydream about all the ways he was
special, and how you'll never find anyone who
understands you quite the same way he did?
Romanticizing or re-hashing the past is a
pretty common thing many women do when they break
up with a man.
Big mistake.
Don't do this to yourself.
This is 100% sure to only make you feel MORE
AWFUL, not to mention that it keeps you from
focusing on what's most important to you right
now.
And that is learning how to get what you want
and how to have the kind of relationship you
deserve in the FUTURE.
When you focus on your ex too much, and you
spend your time "pining away" for a relationship,
you miss out on a very important lesson.
You stop seeing all the ways that the
relationship made life a ROLLER COASTER for you.
You don't realize all the ways he wasn't right
for you or made you feel less than your true self.
You don't learn what it is your really want and
need from a relationship in order to be fulfilled.
Let's face it, you were led down some very
negative emotional paths by this guy, weren't you?
So, instead of thinking only of the "good
times" and how much you miss him, consider all the
things he did and said that made you feel
insecure, anxious or frustrated - feelings that
one way or another probably contributed to the end
of the relationship.
What can you learn about yourself, love and men
from the things that drove you two apart, so that
you're sure to have a more intimate, loving and
evolved relationship next time around.
Don't repeat those same mistakes in your next
relationship.
If you're starting to realize now that even if
you love a man, you don't really UNDERSTAND what
it is that makes a relationship actually WORK and
last with one...
Or you don't understand what you're doing in
the relationship that's causing him to withdraw or
lose interest in you, you'll just keep bringing
those same issues into future relationships.
Then I want to show you:
-- What defines a "good", MATURE guy to begin
with, so you don't keep picking men who just
aren't ready for a real relationship in the first
place
-- What makes a man feel inspired to be completely
devoted to you from day 1, both emotionally and
sexually
-- What a man needs in order to feel that he's in
love with you and that a relationship is "working"
in his mind
Go here to know what a truly honest and mature
man looks and sounds like, what inspires him to
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